tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post5987094185790513709..comments2023-09-13T08:56:06.070-07:00Comments on Born Still but Still Born: Chantelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18040429393319551211noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-14792808217274695342008-12-08T01:32:00.000-08:002008-12-08T01:32:00.000-08:00I guess the gap is just a physical reminder... lit...I guess the gap is just a physical reminder... literally pointing to what you've lost. I'm so sorry.<BR/><BR/>Do you plan on having more children?<BR/>www.carunlimited.com/hideawaykristihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01961649049089884753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-46723016828257816122008-12-01T17:44:00.000-08:002008-12-01T17:44:00.000-08:00My heart goes out to you. I do not have the gap i...My heart goes out to you. I do not have the gap in terms of nieces or nephews but my oldest and youngest children are 7, almost 8 years apart. The gap is so apparent to me every day. Andrew would have been 4 years old week after next, the perfect insert in between my oldest and youngest. I feel your ache....be kind to yourself....you deserve to be angry. Often, I am too. Thank you for sharing.Andrew's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08448028829163697091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-80534754051990963222008-12-01T09:28:00.000-08:002008-12-01T09:28:00.000-08:00Hubby's family has that same gap. There are twin b...Hubby's family has that same gap. There are twin boys, 13. Twin girls, 8. And then my little neice, who is 6 months. All alone. My Devin would have been 2 months older than her. Best of friends. It does hurt. :( I'm sorry you're having a bad day. I know all too well. Thanksgiving WAS hard. There should have been two kids crawling - not one.Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16003334714597731355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-29426363758320069132008-12-01T08:58:00.000-08:002008-12-01T08:58:00.000-08:00And yet, I'm willing to bet you are the only one t...And yet, I'm willing to bet you are the only one that REALLY sees it, in your head I mean - with sound and color.<BR/><BR/>For that - my heart breaks.Carahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08878937591945134056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-69440583500892366962008-12-01T06:34:00.000-08:002008-12-01T06:34:00.000-08:00Aw, and the cuz likely doesn't know what he is mis...Aw, and the cuz likely doesn't know what he is missing. I can't imagine how hard that is to see.Ya Chunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08816837461370619194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-59332104491782984872008-12-01T05:58:00.000-08:002008-12-01T05:58:00.000-08:00I understand too. Two of dh's cousins have boy...I understand too. Two of dh's cousins have boys -- one is exactly six months older than my daughter would have been, and one is exactly six months younger. Every time I see all the cousins' kids together, I look at those two & think about the little girl who should be in the middle. My only consolation is that they're boys & not girls. And the younger one was a second baby, so I didn't have to go to a baby shower.loribethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09272814565916935113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-77919512049360529722008-11-30T21:38:00.000-08:002008-11-30T21:38:00.000-08:00i hear you. i've been noticing The Gap in a few pl...i hear you. i've been noticing The Gap in a few places :( My best friend's oldest is 4, and my oldest is almost 4 (2 weeks, ack!)<BR/><BR/>They are the best of friends. <BR/><BR/>When I was pregnant with Catti, my best friend found out 1 month before Catti was stillborn that she was pregnant too. YAY we were both going to have babies in 2007, that could be bffs just like their older brother and sister. <BR/><BR/>She had another boy, I had another girl. He lived, she didn't. <BR/><BR/>Now we are both pregnant again. Both due in 2009, a month apart. <BR/><BR/>I'm having a boy, she's having a boy. Hopefully they'll both live and be bffs. <BR/><BR/>but every time i see her son, now toddling around, it makes me aware that catti isn't here, and cal doesn't have his bff. <BR/><BR/>yeah the anger. *sigh*JENhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07931773798744080086noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-68876127214938123302008-11-30T21:19:00.000-08:002008-11-30T21:19:00.000-08:00Yes. I can understand the anger.Yes. I can understand the anger.Mrs. Spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03386820063407910064noreply@blogger.com