tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post5805411455262303179..comments2023-09-13T08:56:06.070-07:00Comments on Born Still but Still Born: Chantelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18040429393319551211noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-79859074707859007292009-05-04T17:35:00.000-07:002009-05-04T17:35:00.000-07:00This post is so dear to my heart. Who knows what y...This post is so dear to my heart. Who knows what you would have done - but the point is you would have had the choice - ALL your options laid out there for you. <br /><br />We have one picture of Emma. No other shots - no video - It is a serious point of regret for me. I'm working on letting it go.Carahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08878937591945134056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-22121258484430950652009-05-02T18:35:00.000-07:002009-05-02T18:35:00.000-07:00Oh sweetie i'm so sorry.... i cant even imagine ho...Oh sweetie i'm so sorry.... i cant even imagine how that must have felt to find that out after that time..... Hugs to you and your hubby!2blessed2stresshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00076784751867575076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-76187561600942279242009-05-02T18:16:00.000-07:002009-05-02T18:16:00.000-07:00Wow, I had no idea that was an option. I *think* w...Wow, I had no idea that was an option. I *think* we would have jumped at the chance. You just never know for sure. I hope hospitals and nurses continue to become more aware so parents are given these opportunities. Your words were beautiful.The Welch'shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17282501080805299205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-52496002926813468782009-05-02T17:43:00.000-07:002009-05-02T17:43:00.000-07:00OMG I would have never thought you could bring a b...OMG I would have never thought you could bring a baby home that had passed, but what an amazing gift that is!!!<br /><br />I truly hope all who want to experience that get to!Kristihttp://www.carunlimited.com/hideawaynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-2671823644917664592009-05-02T17:27:00.000-07:002009-05-02T17:27:00.000-07:00I also had the video camera packed. Like you, I ha...I also had the video camera packed. Like you, I had everything packed as we thought we were going to hospital that day to have a baby. A baby we would take home. I wish we got that video camera out, I wish.....<br />I knew we could have taken Hope home. I knew we could have even taken her to the funeral. I don't have any regrets there. I don't think I could have/would have. I know she died at home in my belly, I am sitting on the very couch where it happened now. I'm not sure I could have bought her dead body back here. Imagine the neighbours who didn't know who might have come up to us to congratulate us.... I don't have too many regrets, but not bringing her home isn't one of them. My goal is just to bring the next one home, as you did.Hope's Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04984543289642681339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-25762554889718635742009-05-02T16:57:00.000-07:002009-05-02T16:57:00.000-07:00I know exactly how you feel. I wouldn't have take...I know exactly how you feel. I wouldn't have taken Abbey home. I was afraid just holding her. I was afraid to ask my mom to take pictures. I was in shock.<br /><br />That sounds like a good conference.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09856102708963900512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-35395201900269363482009-05-02T13:58:00.000-07:002009-05-02T13:58:00.000-07:00I wondered about bringing Felicity, after the fact...I wondered about bringing Felicity, after the fact of course. I was in shock that I never even thought of it at the hospital or even for weeks afterwards. I don't know if we would've been able to do it either and I also wish we had video of Felicity instead of just pictures. I often close my eyes and just remember what it felt like to hold her, though it's already getting harder to remember. I never held her up on my chest (with her head by my shoulder). I guess I felt like she was so fragile. If only we could have thought more clearly during that difficult time.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06343969561417373936noreply@blogger.com