tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post3992969824177684436..comments2023-09-13T08:56:06.070-07:00Comments on Born Still but Still Born: Chantelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18040429393319551211noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-59471455688241933392008-11-27T23:24:00.000-08:002008-11-27T23:24:00.000-08:00sorry... entered wrong urlsorry... entered wrong urlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33962866.post-24082625031112893612008-11-27T23:22:00.000-08:002008-11-27T23:22:00.000-08:00This is so lovely. Even the heartache expressed s...This is so lovely. Even the heartache expressed still has a beauty about it that shines through. What a precious gift your sister-in-law gave you at a time when she was losing so much!!<BR/><BR/>I can't imagine ANYone not including a child they've lost in a "head count" and I would expect to hear that answer. Just because they aren't here physically doesn't discount their existence in your lives and hearts... SOULS!!!<BR/><BR/>I hope this doesn't sound horrible because this question is asked out of sincere curiosity... On her first b-day, did you feel like you could finally take a deep breath? I felt that way after losing so many babies through miscarriages. I've been pregnant 7 times and only have two to show for it but even those two had to be saved by circlage (sewing the servix shut) because I was in the process of miscarraiges with them. It wasn't when they were born that I felt it... it was always one the milestones... 1yr, 13rs, 16yrs, 18yrs and now I've got 21. Of course, today I'm back to holding my breath where he's concerned!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com